Compassion is Caught Not Taught

I took the kids to a local branch of our city library the other day to return some books and pick out new ones.

On our way out, a little girl about 5 came up to my daughter and gave her a hug.   I bent down to talk to the little girl, and she smiled but didn’t speak.  Her mom told us she is autistic and doesn’t speak.  So I told her MacKenzie’s name and Mac gave her a hug back.  The little girls’ entire face lit up!

On the way out the door, Mac asked what “autistic” meant.  I told her the little bit I did know about it being a neurological condition that is different in each child and though the little girl couldn’t speak, she sure let Mac know she wanted to “talk” to her by hugging.

My always compassionate daughter was thrilled that she could “talk” to someone by smiling and hugging and I’m sure she will keep that in her heart for a very long time.

Quote this…

If you see failure as a monster stalking you, or one that has already ruined your life, take another look. That monster can become a benevolent teacher, opening your mind to successes you cannot now imagine.

~Martha Beck

When Everything Is Urgent, Nothing Is

I’ve heard this before from other VA’s and thankfully, I’ve only had one client for whom “URGENT” was as common as “the”.

When you are working with a virtual assistant, giving time-lines is crucial.

As a client, you should be aware of your VA’s standard turnaround time, as well as the manner in which “URGENT” items will be handled.

As a VA, make sure that you outline your expectations for turnaround and emergencies in your contract – it’s as simple as attaching an appendix outlining your hours of operation, standard turnaround time and definition of urgent.

Many VA’s I know, myself included, charge a premium for urgent matters that require less than a 24 hour turnaround. We know that things will inevitably crop up and we will really need to drop everything to put out your fire, and yes, that can come with a price.

And as the title says, please use URGENT sparingly – using it on every single email means that eventually your items will be “taken with a grain of salt” – and you will become the client who cried wolf!

Tweetsuite Advice?

I tried using the WordPress plugin called Tweetbacks a month or so ago, with a HUGE increase in spam that was ultimately the end of that experiment!

So if you have used, or currently use, Tweetsuite, can you please give me a list of pros and cons – things you love about it or things that you hate?

Thanks!

Using Color to Evoke Emotion

If you are a VA who does website or graphics work with clients, you will appreciate this post at “the theme blog” called “Evoking Emotion with Color”.

We all respond to color instinctively, associating certain hues with certain emotions. Use this info to help your client create a site or branding graphics that match their message.

WP Design: Free Vintage Grunge Background Textures

From the Princess-of-Shadows at deviant art – a package of free, downloadable vintage grunge background textures.

Get your own copy here!